Be careful who you tell are the words of wisdom I hold close when I have news to share. I’m learning my process is mine not everyone else’s. My healing journey is fragile. Therefore, so is my heart and mind. My heart shouldn’t have to be defensive when I share pieces of it. I shouldn’t have to plead or explain my wounds. My pace is where it needs to be. Over time I’m learning the people who have been here for the past four years behind the scenes of my counseling journey truly want me to expose the darkness that rests in my bones and walk in abundant life in Christ.